Packrat who does not finish ANYTHING!
Wants the garage completely swept out and free of leaves, etc., but tracks EVERYTHING into the house!
Completely negative about anyone else's driving and he's the one with all the accidents!
I'm afraid to drive at all with him...his discontent makes me too nervous.
I'm afraid to ride with him too, because of his aggravated misuse of vehicles in the past.
He was angry at me for a mistake in driving directions by Mapquest while we were driving to Florida and there was no apology when I explained to him that I was just following the directions given.
After I returned to Illinois, WELL after the trip to FL, he finally did apologize for his "monstrous behavior". I explained to him that this is one of the reasons why I thought we would benefit from counseling and he refused...AGAIN.
Frequently talks about doing "something nasty to the ex"...meaning his ex-wife. Examples he brought up..."dump chemicals like battery acid on her Mom's lawn". He said he liked her Mom fine! He still believes she is watching him and "doing things" to him!
His agenda is first, no other...no talking, doing, etc....
Elbowed me hard in the middle of the back once because I said something disparaging about myself.
He left a "hot" wire uncovered in the basement behind leftover wood and lots of wood dust!
He had months to get rid of his old stuff that he didn't want to take to Florida, but he left it all for me to dispose of....and I'd better "get something" for it, too!
He talks about himself as having an attitude of selflessness and HIS work is ALWAYS quality. Always talking down about others whom he doesn't even know. HIS opinion COUNTS...(only his).
Expects others to fix his mistakes.
He changes stories often to suit himself, telling others that he is reciting "verbatim"...WRONG!
Saw ComEd crew topping trees, he was going out there with a loaded gun, which I refused to get for him.
He calls himself a "Christian man", but he doesn't practice any form I've ever heard of in church!
Demeans my job and my paycheck for any job I've had.
Told me of "hiding" assets from his ex wife.
Threatens me with divorce (my Dad's birthday)
My stomach in a constant uproar until he's gone, nervous, "stuck", unable to concentrate.
Complained of my charitable donations with MY inheritance from MY Dad.."do you think we can afford that right now?".
He can spend all he wants on whatever he wants whenever he wants on things he hardly (or never) uses and then doesn't take them back to the store; just lets them sit and become totally useless.
He hates the neighbor (Jim) due to a silly mistake that Jim made remarking about property taxes and getting our property reassessed. Blames dead leaves on pine trees on Jim...remarking on "a spray pattern".
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