1-26-2010
You called to say that you wanted to "have a one on one" with me and a counselor that you had lined up from your workplace. That's how important all of this was to you. If it's paid for by the company, you'd get counseling. (Knowing what you've said about company doctors, that was NOT reassuring! Also, I had tried to encourage you for years to go with me and you said "that never works", and refused to even consider it.)
I didn't say much except that I needed space to think and you finally relented about the appointment, but continued to chat about this and that (insulating the attic, choice of windows and paint, etc). You were pleasant enough, but this was very annoying since I already told you I needed space. Maybe if you listened and HEARD instead of just "listening" and enjoying your own voice, you'd have more and longer lasting relationships in all aspects of your life!
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