Don't trust

I have found that trust is not to be found in most people, especially the ones who promise you the world as you need it. I have been told I could stay here for five years, if needed and since there was a problem caused by the presence of me and my pets, I'm now on the lookout for my own place. Since the divorce is not over with and doesn't look as if it will be soon, this is another hardship that was placed because I believed in something I was told a more than a year ago. Yes, I know things change....obviously. One more lesson in life.....why do I go on trusting what people say and do? Because my innate nature is a trusting one. Even when I say "are you sure?" over and over and people say "yes", things end up being a boggle of deceit and isolation.

The latest in my quest to find the end of love by dancing without end....

 “I understand you a lot better than you think I do.” .....


Remember that line? It's from the movie, "Tootsie", starring Dustin Hoffman among others. Mr. Hoffman plays the part of a woman and when another man is trying to explain why he uses women the way he does to Hoffman in his female guise, that is what he tells the womanizer.


It applies to many other situations though. Like a person who insists upon helping with a situation, then suddenly decides she/he is "done" with it and you are on your own.